My alarm
went off this morning and I was actually ready to jump up and start my
day. I even got up 15 minutes early
which I was sure was going to pay off for me.
I slipped out to the kitchen and put on 2 cups of water, waited for a
boil and popped in a cup of Bob’s Red Mill gluten free oatmeal, a handful of
raisin and a lot of cinnamon (they love cinnamon). I put on the lid and turned it down to low so
it could cook while I went to wake up my sleeping 1st grader. If you are looking for easy and healthy food in the morning while getting your kids off to
school, this is one of my favorites and I will share how I implement in a panic.
Every
morning I sneak into Arleena’s room and cuddle under the covers with her to slowly
wake her up for school… hopefully I don’t fall back asleep in the process.
All the time I am praying we have a “good” morning. I am sure you other
mom’s know what I am talking about… Almost all of my mornings are pretty good
but today on this beautiful morning I had a grumpy daughter that stayed up to
late at a sleep over this past weekend. But
today the heels were in the floor and she was determined to convince me she had
a belly ache and could not make it to school.
In the midst of this I hear Bowen, my 1 and half year old, yelling MOM!
MOM! In my head I understand I have 35
minutes to be out the door, which is not a problem when my little princess gets
up on her own accord. I said a prayer
and left Arleena’s room after sternly explaining to her that she has had her
last sleepover if she does not get up and get moving…in a very loving and calm
voice of course. So I have Bowen dressed
and out in his chair to eat… The trick to creating the best healthy meals for your kids is to make sure they are flexible
as well as healthy. The oatmeal takes a long time to cool
down, so I spread it out very thin on a large plate and hand him half a banana
in the mean time. By the time he is done I have the oatmeal in
a bowl ready to go. While he is eating I
am preparing a healthy lunch for Arleena and eating oatmeal with a scoop of
peanut butter in the process. Normally I
would have a shake but today there is no time and eating breakfast is so
important for moms! So I always eat
something. I will spare you the details
but Arleena made it to the car and ate her oatmeal on the way to school. Oatmeal is a very healthy and flexible food
before school. Remember that instant
oatmeal is NOT healthy and is loaded with sugar. If time is an issue you can always make
regular oatmeal the night before and have it ready to heat up first thing in
the morning.
In the
morning, something that is way more important than the best healthy meals, is
making sure that my kids know that I love them no matter what they do. I was praying out loud in the midst of this
chaos because I wanted things to go the way I wanted them to go. I wanted Arleena to respond to my threats of
being tardy and not having anymore sleepovers but today there was not rationalization
behind her eyes. When I got in the van
with all children in tack I had a burden on my heart. I didn’t want to see her walk into school
without making things right and new. We
had a long talk on the way and I forgave her for her actions and assured her
that there was nothing she could ever do to make me love her any less. I also reiterated that she made a bad choice
and that did not mean she was bad just that the choice was not good. Her smile
returned and I hugged her with all I had before she went into school. Those few minutes of exchanging forgiveness
was worth all the chaos. I always
remember that each time I kiss anyone goodbye it could be the last time so make
it count and do not leave anything unsaid!
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